Totally Frugal Forums
Home Register FAQ Members List Calendar Mark Forums Read

Go Back   Totally Frugal Forums > Total Frugality > Beginner's Frugality
User Name
Password
Beginner's Frugality Learn the basics of being Frugal.



Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 11-04-2008, 10:09 AM
cojo cojo is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 11
cojo is on a distinguished road
Default SURPRISE! We're buying a house


Hi guys!

I just wanted to share. My 82-year-old grandmother has had some major health problems. Three strokes, multiple hospitalizations, falls, etc. To encourage her to move into assisted living, my husband and I told her we would buy her house if she ever decided to do this. She is adverse to change so I honestly thought that it would be several years, if ever, that she would decide to leave her home.

Well, a couple of weeks ago she decided she wants to move into assisted living - and they accepted her application. She is planning on moving in January and wants to make sure the house is never vacant, so it looks like we will be buying a home in January.

I have about 15% of the purchase price saved up as a down payment right now. It will take some serious saving, but I'm aiming for a 20% down payment in January. Fortunately, she is selling us the home for about HALF of what homes in the area are going for - and she will hold the mortgage as opposed to a bank, so we will save a lot of money on closing costs, fees, etc.
She will be charging us about 5% interest, depending on what the going rate will be in Jan. Also we keep the furniture in her home that she cannot take to assisted living - much of this is antique, well made, and beautiful.

After we buy the house, the mortgage will only be about 10% of my take-home pay so I am planning on tacking on to the mortgage each month to reduce interest and shorten the mortgage.

Unfortunately DH refuses to move furniture out of our apartment in January (we're in Buffalo) so I will have to pay both rent and a mortgage until May or whenever he is willing to help me move furniture.

This is a six bedroom three bathroom house in a great neighborhood. I'm only 26 and have never taken on this kind of debt or responsibility before. I'm excited because I think this is a way to financial freedom but also kind of nervous. If anyone has any advice for me I would appreciate it.

Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 11-04-2008, 10:31 AM
Sirk's Avatar
Sirk Sirk is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Texas
Posts: 91
Sirk is on a distinguished road
Default

congratz on the house!

I hate to say it, but make sure the paperwork is in order so that if she passes away the house isn't part of her estate and you're forced to move because it's going to go to pay her debts.

I would think it would be cheaper to pay movers than it would be to pay rent for 6 months. And I would kick my husband in the shin for being a lazy git.
__________________
Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person.
- Mother Teresa


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 11-04-2008, 11:58 AM
cojo cojo is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 11
cojo is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Sirk View Post
congratz on the house!

I hate to say it, but make sure the paperwork is in order so that if she passes away the house isn't part of her estate and you're forced to move because it's going to go to pay her debts.

I would think it would be cheaper to pay movers than it would be to pay rent for 6 months. And I would kick my husband in the shin for being a lazy git.
Ha! Thanks. Yes, everything will legally be on the up-and-up. We're using a trusted family lawyer to draw up the details, including what happens when she passes away. At that point either my parents will hold the mortgage (they've offered to do so) or a bank will buy the mortgage if no one wants to hold it.

I was talking with my dad over lunch. He said that a good idea would probably be to move the heavy items EARLY, while there's no snow on the ground, into her garage. I think that is a very good idea and will eliminate his excuses for the cold weather. We'll see what he says.

If he's still not down for it I may well end up hiring some college student movers.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 11-18-2008, 10:50 PM
BeautifulDay BeautifulDay is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: The big city of angels
Posts: 7
BeautifulDay is on a distinguished road
Default

congrats on your new home..make it a happy one.
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 09-25-2009, 04:49 PM
Cloudyyy3 Cloudyyy3 is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: California
Posts: 4
Cloudyyy3 is on a distinguished road
Default

Congrats!!
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 09-26-2009, 10:37 AM
pittsanne pittsanne is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: PA and FL
Posts: 2
pittsanne is on a distinguished road
Default

I am new to the forum but I am very happy for you and DH for your fortune.
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Celebrate Life! Be Alive!
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 01-18-2010, 08:03 PM
info-link info-link is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2010
Posts: 1
info-link is on a distinguished road
Default

Сongratulations! It's great obtainment in our crisis days!
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 02-08-2010, 10:52 AM
PennyKeeper PennyKeeper is offline
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Los Angeles
Posts: 15
PennyKeeper is on a distinguished road
Default

congrats on that new home!!!!
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 09:21 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.6.5
Copyright ©2000 - 2010, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.